This is a blah blog... Not much going on here... All has been calm for this family lately. Hubby's still on the hunt for a better job (keep those fingers crossed and him in your prayers), kiddos are all doing well, we're all healthy, no drama as of late (thank God!), been civil with the ex, house is clean (yippy!), we finished our shopping way way back and our wrapping bout a week ago (can't keep track), so we've pretty much just been chillaxin since the kiddos got out for break (except for hubby who still has to work.. boo!). Me, I get the joy of working Christmas Eve, but really I can't complain.. I haven't worked all week and I get off at 1pm.... So, yea we're pretty boring... Oh well, I'm enjoying the calm while it lasts!
I have managed to get way organized again... Luv it! I've been making lists like crazy... Grocery lists, Christmas lists, To-Do lists, dinner menu lists for a week at a time, and the list goes on... I've gone through and reorganized my clothes, several closets, my 10yr old sons whole room (wont he be surprised!), our bedroom, the pantry... I'm sure there's more. I've deff been getting shit done! Yay me!
Now we're just waiting for Christmas to arrive... Can't wait to see the kids open their gifts! I'll prob wake up at like 3am and nobody will want to join me... What can I say, I'm always the first up Christmas morn! Hubs said I'm not allowed to wake him till 7am at the earliest.... we'll see bout that!
Since we're so boring lately I don't really have anything left to write about, so I'll leave y'all with a poem I wrote recently for my kiddos. Enjoy!
It isn't quite time yet, but the time is growing near
That day is creeping closer, much too closely here I fear
I know that it's inevitable, the day must eventually come
When first my oldest child leaves, the some day I'll have none
You four are growing way too fast, it's hard for me to bear
I miss the days when you were small, and looked to me for care
I can still remember the days you four blessings came to me
Each and every one providing more love to our family tree
Kelsey, you're nearly grown, you'll be a teen next year
I tried to will it not to happen, but the time is finally here
And Chase, you're growing too, it's hard to believe
On the day you were born, an Angel I did receive
Caleb, you're getting so big, next year it's Kindergarten for you
Seems like just yesterday when I caught you eating your own poo
Then there's my little Micah Man, not so little anymore
In the blink of an eye I hardly recognize you four
So slow down a bit, if I may ask you please
You all are growing up too fast, I'm begging on my knees
Stay my little ones a while longer, because if not I know
I will miss you all terrible, it'll break my heart when you all go
Dec 23, 2011
Nov 20, 2011
Stressgiving?????
That’s what this Thanksgiving is for me…. STRESSFUL! I stress enough as is; can’t I get a break on Thanksgiving???
This year David and I get the absolute joy of traveling hours to another state with our four kiddos to spend the holiday with David’s family. Now, there’s a certain amount of stress involved with any Busch family gathering… for me at least. It’s no secret; I’m not their ideal daughter-in-law. I don’t blame them, not really. It’s just that we’re from two different universes and unfortunately neither side can quite understand the other. I’d love a perfect in-law relationship, but I’ve accepted that just isn’t going to happen. For the most part we’re polite. I have nothing but respect for most of them. I’m glad for my mother-in-law and all she does, like watching my boys. But yeah, there’s never going to be a strong bond there… it’s sad I know, and it’s our differences that gives me so much stress when I’m around them.
See, I’m just me… I cuss and drink and I’ve done drugs and had many sexual partners and love talking about sex and love having sex and don’t hide when I’m upset or pissed and I’m not perfect and I like being a bit out there, a bit provocative if you will and I like PDA and I don’t lie or pretend my life is so grand all the damn time and my kids are not only my responsibility, they’re also my husband’s and I wear my heart on my sleeve and I can be too sensitive and sometimes I cry for no damn good reason and I talk about whatever the fuck is on my mind and I’m not some chick who loves shopping and I hate sports and I will speak my mind about what I hate and I’m sarcastic and I can be a super bitch and I love crude humor and I love crude movies and I believe in God, but I’m not some submissive super Christian woman… My marriage has its faults, but we love each other deeper than any of his family will ever comprehend. My marriage is a partnership, not a dictatorship. My marriage is full of sarcastic humor and play fights, that some misconstrue as something else. I admit, I’m way addicted to and not great at sharing my husband… Well, this is some of what causes tension when I’m around David’s family.
Usually when we visit with them it’s for a short period of time, a matter of hours. When we go for Thanksgiving we’ll be staying overnight and such. It’s hard enough to bite my tongue and be ultra-polite during shorter visits… OMG I don’t know how I’m gonna deal over Thanksgiving! And it’s not just gonna be David’s family, there’s also supposed to be a bunch of strangers there. I’ve been stressed about feeling like an outcast there, about where we’re gonna sleep there (sounds trivial, but it’s important after driving hours and hours), about where the kids will sleep, keeping up with our shit, and hoping our kids don’t run amuck… Not to mention stress over the drive in our not always trusty minivan. Oh, and missing out on seeing my extended family…. Yeah, maybe I’m being whiny, whatever!
This isn’t just because of his family either… Like I hate, really really hate staying overnight at people’s houses. I don’t care if it’s my bestest friend or one of my family members, I’d much rather be in my own damn bed. I’m picky like that! I like being able to wake up in my home, shit in my own toilet, and shower in my own fucking shower! I feel so uncomfortable in other people’s homes… you could be the nicest most welcoming person in the world and I’d still feel so extremely uncomfortable staying in your home. Now hotels are something totally different… I’m paying to stay there, then it becomes my place till I check out.
And have I mentioned how much I love sex????? So, nope don’t care where the hell I’m at, still gotta have sex with the hubs. If that means we gotta sneak out for a fun minivan fuck we’re still getting the job done… This does however create a whole new level of stress for me…. I’m not fucking going without because we’re visiting family…. Sorry to the Busch’s!
And as insane as this may sound, if by any chance there’s any issue with my hubs or a certain family member…. Well usually I’ll just hope in the mini and drive off the tension. How the hell am I going to drive off tension in unfamiliar territory?????
After all my reasoning for stressing to the max you may be wondering why on Earth I agreed to this. Well, otherwise I would have been viewed as the devil wife… I’m really trying to get along with these people and I do love my hubby and otherwise he won’t get to see his brother for a long ass time… So I’m sucking it up… Doesn’t mean my stress level isn’t thru the damn roof!
Oh….. Annnnnd we stopped smoking yet again…. Worst possible fucking time to quit smoking ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Btw… only thing worse than being stuck in another state with strangers and in-laws… a post-Thanksgiving dinner with my mom (oh please shoot me now!).
I do so wish everyone a glorious Happy Thanksgiving!!!! Even though I’m stressing, I’m so very happy I will be spending Thanksgiving with the people that mean the mostest… David, Kels, Chaser, Caleb, and Micah Man!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m very very very thankful for my fam J
Oct 11, 2011
Feeding Mike Hunt
**** WARNING WARNING!!!!!! THIS IS A SEX BLOG ****
Disclaimer: This blog may be offensive to some... You've been warned! I don't wanna hear any complaints if you choose to ignore these multiple warnings over the content of my SEX blog!
Sooooo... I'm suddenly in a blogging mood, or maybe I'm trying to avoid that pile of laundry I've barely made a dent in even after several loads yesterday, not to mention sorting and putting up the clean shit! I'll be really glad when whatever bug these boys caught goes the fuck away, cause I'm sick of cleaning up puke. It's sad, but I'd still rather clean the puke than ever deal with them bleeding...
Anyways, back to me being in a blog mood... Well, I've had this idea for a blog for some time, but who the hell wants to hear about my sex life? Or me talking about sex? You! Whoever you are, if you continue to read this it's obvious you do!
Who doesn't like sex? If you say you don't, then perhaps you aren't doing it right... I for one think sex is AWESOME!! Always have, always will. Especially since I met hubby... I swear, no joke, after over 6yrs together it still continues to get better and better and more and more mind blowing! Hell, before him 'multiple orgasms' were like unicorns. In that case it's safe to say... Unicorns do exist! They are spectacular and magical!
Honestly, what gets me is how some couples barely do it. What the fuck? Forget that, "oh I have a headache", shit! Sex cures headaches! And stress! It's a great energy boost! And most importantly, it bonds you and your partner like nothing else, when done right that is... There are very few tangible excuses as to why NOT to have sex, and zillons of reasons why you should. Now, if you're really ill (I mean REALLY ILL), or for real injured, or really preggers... those are acceptable reasons to pass on sex. Otherwise, why aren't we all humping like rabbits? And I'm talking about couples here people, people already sexually active, that sorta thing. I can't stand to hear statistics where people have been together such and such years and now they maybe have sex twice a month.... And they wonder where the spark went???
Now before you start complaining, "we're too busy... we're tired... blah blah blah", let me tell you... Hubs and I both work, hubs is still in school, we have four wonderful yet exhausting kids, and we manage to have amazing sex all the time. We dang near have sex daily. Yes daily! It's very very very rare for us to go one day without screwing, and when we do we have to make up for it later. More often than not we do it two or more times a day. What can I say? He's THAT good in bed! So, if we can 'do it', so can you!
I think I may in fact be addicted to his cock... Seriously addicted! And I'm okay with that. Hey, at least it's his cock and not just any 'ol cock I want. He is, without a doubt, the best lover I've ever had.
I'm no expert, but I think when people neglect their sex lives, they are potentially sabotaging their relationship. Even you single folks, get a trustworthy FWB. Regular sex is good for mind, body, and soul. It's like Red Bull, it gives you wings! You get this euphoric feeling, like a drug. It's a legal drug! You can't overdose on it (unless you have some heart condition I suppose), it's free (unless you just wanna pay, but really have you seen an actual prostitute? YUCK!), and there's only positive side effects. It's an excellent work out! You burn tons of calories having sex, if you get into it... which you should, it's soooo much better when you do.
*Before I go any further here, let me say this... Safe sex is best! Get tested, have your partner get tested, use protection, don't have 'oops babies'. Nuff said!
Anyways, where was I? Oh yea, sex! Well, if you're still reading this then now's the portion of this blog where I focus on my sex. Me, I'd rather have sex than shop, or eat, or sleep... No joke! And hubs has complete permission to do me anytime, anyway. Yep, you heard that right! I could be passed out, and if he's feeling frisky he can have his way with me. Hell, he can tie me up and force me if he wants, I'm into that sorta thing.
Don't get me wrong, our marriage isn't solely based on sex. We are connected on a much deeper level than that, but that friends isn't what this particular blog is all about, now is it? We both happen to enjoy sex sooooo much. We love getting each other off. Anyway, anywhere, anytime... It's like my cunt is literally starving for his dick, so he feeds her often. Hence the title of today's blog "Feeding Mike Hunt". If you haven't caught it yet, keep repeating it aloud to yourself....
My only complaint.... I'd like more damn quickies!! 7 times our of 10 hubs lasts forever. I mean fffooooooorrreeeeeeevvvvvveeeeeerrrrrrr...... The other three times he last at least 30mins or more. Like it's way rare for the man to pull a 10min screw. So, needless to say we can't just go, "oh lets do a quickie before we go". Nope, only got 20mins to spare, that'll only leave us both wanting... BOO! I'd really love to be able to suck him off more often. It's nearly impossible, and not for lack of trying. I'm sorry but after 45mins my jaw gets tired... I'm working on that. And I don't mind a lil anal, but again he just keeps going and going. He's the damn energizer bunny of sex! That shits ok for a while, but after so long it hurts! Ouch!
You'd think after one session with him my cunt would be so stuffed and satisfied she couldn't take anymore for days. Nope... She's a hungry fucker! Just like an addict, I never get my fill of my cock drug. And all this sex talk has made me really anxious for hubs to get home! Ugh.... Time ticks by like a slow bitch when you're horny and craving the pleasures only one person can bring...
I think I should stop now... Cause I'm just rambling at this point. I'll be happy if this blog has made even one person want to tear off the clothes of their significant other and fuck their brains out.... then my job is done. But if you got to this point and are like, "but I don't have the desire anymore", well it's bout time to bring sexy back. Ladies: shave, wear something naughty, take pics, send pics to your man/women, sext often, read some sex stories to get in the mood... that's a few suggestions. Men: well romance her, duh! Send flowers, play sexy music, dance with her, massage her, women really like being caressed slowly all over... Well, hope that helps! Now go forth and fornicate!
OXOX
Disclaimer: This blog may be offensive to some... You've been warned! I don't wanna hear any complaints if you choose to ignore these multiple warnings over the content of my SEX blog!
Sooooo... I'm suddenly in a blogging mood, or maybe I'm trying to avoid that pile of laundry I've barely made a dent in even after several loads yesterday, not to mention sorting and putting up the clean shit! I'll be really glad when whatever bug these boys caught goes the fuck away, cause I'm sick of cleaning up puke. It's sad, but I'd still rather clean the puke than ever deal with them bleeding...
Anyways, back to me being in a blog mood... Well, I've had this idea for a blog for some time, but who the hell wants to hear about my sex life? Or me talking about sex? You! Whoever you are, if you continue to read this it's obvious you do!
Who doesn't like sex? If you say you don't, then perhaps you aren't doing it right... I for one think sex is AWESOME!! Always have, always will. Especially since I met hubby... I swear, no joke, after over 6yrs together it still continues to get better and better and more and more mind blowing! Hell, before him 'multiple orgasms' were like unicorns. In that case it's safe to say... Unicorns do exist! They are spectacular and magical!
Honestly, what gets me is how some couples barely do it. What the fuck? Forget that, "oh I have a headache", shit! Sex cures headaches! And stress! It's a great energy boost! And most importantly, it bonds you and your partner like nothing else, when done right that is... There are very few tangible excuses as to why NOT to have sex, and zillons of reasons why you should. Now, if you're really ill (I mean REALLY ILL), or for real injured, or really preggers... those are acceptable reasons to pass on sex. Otherwise, why aren't we all humping like rabbits? And I'm talking about couples here people, people already sexually active, that sorta thing. I can't stand to hear statistics where people have been together such and such years and now they maybe have sex twice a month.... And they wonder where the spark went???
Now before you start complaining, "we're too busy... we're tired... blah blah blah", let me tell you... Hubs and I both work, hubs is still in school, we have four wonderful yet exhausting kids, and we manage to have amazing sex all the time. We dang near have sex daily. Yes daily! It's very very very rare for us to go one day without screwing, and when we do we have to make up for it later. More often than not we do it two or more times a day. What can I say? He's THAT good in bed! So, if we can 'do it', so can you!
I think I may in fact be addicted to his cock... Seriously addicted! And I'm okay with that. Hey, at least it's his cock and not just any 'ol cock I want. He is, without a doubt, the best lover I've ever had.
I'm no expert, but I think when people neglect their sex lives, they are potentially sabotaging their relationship. Even you single folks, get a trustworthy FWB. Regular sex is good for mind, body, and soul. It's like Red Bull, it gives you wings! You get this euphoric feeling, like a drug. It's a legal drug! You can't overdose on it (unless you have some heart condition I suppose), it's free (unless you just wanna pay, but really have you seen an actual prostitute? YUCK!), and there's only positive side effects. It's an excellent work out! You burn tons of calories having sex, if you get into it... which you should, it's soooo much better when you do.
*Before I go any further here, let me say this... Safe sex is best! Get tested, have your partner get tested, use protection, don't have 'oops babies'. Nuff said!
Anyways, where was I? Oh yea, sex! Well, if you're still reading this then now's the portion of this blog where I focus on my sex. Me, I'd rather have sex than shop, or eat, or sleep... No joke! And hubs has complete permission to do me anytime, anyway. Yep, you heard that right! I could be passed out, and if he's feeling frisky he can have his way with me. Hell, he can tie me up and force me if he wants, I'm into that sorta thing.
Don't get me wrong, our marriage isn't solely based on sex. We are connected on a much deeper level than that, but that friends isn't what this particular blog is all about, now is it? We both happen to enjoy sex sooooo much. We love getting each other off. Anyway, anywhere, anytime... It's like my cunt is literally starving for his dick, so he feeds her often. Hence the title of today's blog "Feeding Mike Hunt". If you haven't caught it yet, keep repeating it aloud to yourself....
My only complaint.... I'd like more damn quickies!! 7 times our of 10 hubs lasts forever. I mean fffooooooorrreeeeeeevvvvvveeeeeerrrrrrr...... The other three times he last at least 30mins or more. Like it's way rare for the man to pull a 10min screw. So, needless to say we can't just go, "oh lets do a quickie before we go". Nope, only got 20mins to spare, that'll only leave us both wanting... BOO! I'd really love to be able to suck him off more often. It's nearly impossible, and not for lack of trying. I'm sorry but after 45mins my jaw gets tired... I'm working on that. And I don't mind a lil anal, but again he just keeps going and going. He's the damn energizer bunny of sex! That shits ok for a while, but after so long it hurts! Ouch!
You'd think after one session with him my cunt would be so stuffed and satisfied she couldn't take anymore for days. Nope... She's a hungry fucker! Just like an addict, I never get my fill of my cock drug. And all this sex talk has made me really anxious for hubs to get home! Ugh.... Time ticks by like a slow bitch when you're horny and craving the pleasures only one person can bring...
I think I should stop now... Cause I'm just rambling at this point. I'll be happy if this blog has made even one person want to tear off the clothes of their significant other and fuck their brains out.... then my job is done. But if you got to this point and are like, "but I don't have the desire anymore", well it's bout time to bring sexy back. Ladies: shave, wear something naughty, take pics, send pics to your man/women, sext often, read some sex stories to get in the mood... that's a few suggestions. Men: well romance her, duh! Send flowers, play sexy music, dance with her, massage her, women really like being caressed slowly all over... Well, hope that helps! Now go forth and fornicate!
OXOX
Oct 6, 2011
The EX Factor
It should come as no surprise I utterly dislike my ex... Always have, even when we were together. But he's managed to make my distaste for him stronger over the years. See, I have a huge freakin problem with lying... Like what the fuck is the point? Do you not think your lies will someday catch up to you, because if so you are sorely mistaken my friend! I'm not talking little white lies here... No my wonderful ex can tell some massive whoppers!
Ok, so Monday I got the joy of going to court with this looser. We were going to modify child support, which is handled through the AG office. The dumb ass wants it lowered, that I have no issue with, but he thought not paying for all this time wasn't going to come up... That's where he'd be wrong! They brought up probation and suddenly the man became a retard! "I don't understand... " That was his slogan for the day. The lady handling our case was increasingly more and more irate with him, as was I. In the end all we accomplished is yet another court date, where he will have his lawyer present. Now the AG office said he could have a court appointed lawyer, but this guy who claims to be broke instead went out and spent thousands on a lawyer.
I'm no idiot, I've been keeping documentation and records of anything and everything. Yes, maybe I'm a stalker, but I knew this day would come (it has before). He's now planning to take me to court to try and get custody of our son. Keep in mind he doesn't work and claims to be broke, but he has the money to spend on a lawyer and care for a child???? Does he truly believe the judge will buy into his crap? I know exactly what he's thinking, he's like a damn open book. According to our paperwork we're supposed to meet at a specific location for drop off and pick up. Well, we haven't met there in years... seriously years! But after Monday he's suddenly decided we have to meet there again... Yea I don't think so! That meeting spot was picked years ago, and was chosen because it was a neutral spot midway between the two of us. But now it's a 5min drive for him and a 50min drive for us. Oh, and even though he hasn't gotten his son on Wednesdays in years also, he all of a sudden wants to start that again.... And again that's a 50min drive for us. He actually expects us to drive 50mins so he can spend 2hrs with his son, then we have to drive 50mins back home. He's obviously just doing this to be an ass. He doesn't want to pay child support at all (and he hasn't been), and I wouldn't agree to lower it as much as he wants (because he was lying through his teeth in court), and I'm guessing by getting custody he thinks it'll get him out of probation? Really? And like I said before, is he that dense he doesn't think the judge will see through him?
Well, I'm ok with the fact he's taking me to court. I'm actually glad. It's about time we had some shit changed and in writing.... Since his verbal word isn't good. He can hold me in contempt for not bowing down to him and not changing what we've verbally agreed upon. Hope he likes being held in contempt in return! I know I'll enjoy doing so! Years of not following the court order, and he thinks he's going to get custody? Why on earth would the judge give custody to a man who has been in and out of relationships, can't hold a job, currently unemployed, and claims to have a brain injury? Especially when said child is and has been in the care of his mother and stepfather for years, in a stable home environment, living with his siblings, is in a great school district, and has lived in this specific home (which we bought, so we have no plans to move) and town for over 2yrs.... Hmm, not like I'm beating the kid, in fact I'm a good mother. It baffles me that he's so delusional to think they'd take a kid out of a stable home to live with a self proclaimed party animal and rocker. But then again he is a liar, good thing I've got the proof.
I really can't wait to see the look on his face when I reveal all the evidence I have against him! Let him waste thousands and thousands on a lawyer while continuing to not pay child support! I'm not some passive woman he can scare or walk all over, and he'll soon realize that fact. I'm sick and tired of his macho attitude, thinking he can do as he pleases with no repercussions. Yet the second I don't do as he wishes I'm a horrible mother and he's taking me to court. You sir are a tool and the judge will see that. Hell, the lady we spoke with Monday called me (alone, without him) back in the office to ask "Is he for real?"... See, actual adult mature people can see through the bs you spew! You won't get out of probation, or paying back child support, or paying child support altogether, and you most certainly will not get custody you midget douche bag!
That people is the current ex factor I'm dealing with. Had to vent! It won't cure him of his stupidity, but fingers crossed our day in court will bring him somewhat back down to reality. Most likely we'll be back in court yet again in a couple more years... Oh joy! Well, I'm no "debby downer", so I'll end on a positive note... Though he may be a complete moron, he spends time with and loves his son dearly. Just hope one day he'll stop viewing me as the enemy. I'm the kids mom, I only do what's best for all my children. We had a kid together, now you have your life and I have mine, can we try for his sake to get along even a smidgen?
Ok, so Monday I got the joy of going to court with this looser. We were going to modify child support, which is handled through the AG office. The dumb ass wants it lowered, that I have no issue with, but he thought not paying for all this time wasn't going to come up... That's where he'd be wrong! They brought up probation and suddenly the man became a retard! "I don't understand... " That was his slogan for the day. The lady handling our case was increasingly more and more irate with him, as was I. In the end all we accomplished is yet another court date, where he will have his lawyer present. Now the AG office said he could have a court appointed lawyer, but this guy who claims to be broke instead went out and spent thousands on a lawyer.
I'm no idiot, I've been keeping documentation and records of anything and everything. Yes, maybe I'm a stalker, but I knew this day would come (it has before). He's now planning to take me to court to try and get custody of our son. Keep in mind he doesn't work and claims to be broke, but he has the money to spend on a lawyer and care for a child???? Does he truly believe the judge will buy into his crap? I know exactly what he's thinking, he's like a damn open book. According to our paperwork we're supposed to meet at a specific location for drop off and pick up. Well, we haven't met there in years... seriously years! But after Monday he's suddenly decided we have to meet there again... Yea I don't think so! That meeting spot was picked years ago, and was chosen because it was a neutral spot midway between the two of us. But now it's a 5min drive for him and a 50min drive for us. Oh, and even though he hasn't gotten his son on Wednesdays in years also, he all of a sudden wants to start that again.... And again that's a 50min drive for us. He actually expects us to drive 50mins so he can spend 2hrs with his son, then we have to drive 50mins back home. He's obviously just doing this to be an ass. He doesn't want to pay child support at all (and he hasn't been), and I wouldn't agree to lower it as much as he wants (because he was lying through his teeth in court), and I'm guessing by getting custody he thinks it'll get him out of probation? Really? And like I said before, is he that dense he doesn't think the judge will see through him?
Well, I'm ok with the fact he's taking me to court. I'm actually glad. It's about time we had some shit changed and in writing.... Since his verbal word isn't good. He can hold me in contempt for not bowing down to him and not changing what we've verbally agreed upon. Hope he likes being held in contempt in return! I know I'll enjoy doing so! Years of not following the court order, and he thinks he's going to get custody? Why on earth would the judge give custody to a man who has been in and out of relationships, can't hold a job, currently unemployed, and claims to have a brain injury? Especially when said child is and has been in the care of his mother and stepfather for years, in a stable home environment, living with his siblings, is in a great school district, and has lived in this specific home (which we bought, so we have no plans to move) and town for over 2yrs.... Hmm, not like I'm beating the kid, in fact I'm a good mother. It baffles me that he's so delusional to think they'd take a kid out of a stable home to live with a self proclaimed party animal and rocker. But then again he is a liar, good thing I've got the proof.
I really can't wait to see the look on his face when I reveal all the evidence I have against him! Let him waste thousands and thousands on a lawyer while continuing to not pay child support! I'm not some passive woman he can scare or walk all over, and he'll soon realize that fact. I'm sick and tired of his macho attitude, thinking he can do as he pleases with no repercussions. Yet the second I don't do as he wishes I'm a horrible mother and he's taking me to court. You sir are a tool and the judge will see that. Hell, the lady we spoke with Monday called me (alone, without him) back in the office to ask "Is he for real?"... See, actual adult mature people can see through the bs you spew! You won't get out of probation, or paying back child support, or paying child support altogether, and you most certainly will not get custody you midget douche bag!
That people is the current ex factor I'm dealing with. Had to vent! It won't cure him of his stupidity, but fingers crossed our day in court will bring him somewhat back down to reality. Most likely we'll be back in court yet again in a couple more years... Oh joy! Well, I'm no "debby downer", so I'll end on a positive note... Though he may be a complete moron, he spends time with and loves his son dearly. Just hope one day he'll stop viewing me as the enemy. I'm the kids mom, I only do what's best for all my children. We had a kid together, now you have your life and I have mine, can we try for his sake to get along even a smidgen?
Apr 19, 2011
Isn't Ironic... Don't Ya Think?
First I can't log into my account to blog for the longest time cause I, 1) thought I'd used a different email address when I created account 2) forgot my password also.... Then after finally being able to sign back in & proceeding to write out a long ass blog.... Poof! My laptop decides to shut down completely!!!! Is this thing made by Blackberry or something????? So, yea now I'm convinced there our mysterious works at play trying to keep me from blogging! Ugh! Don't they know I'll lay a smack down on their candy asses?!
I'm also bout to lay a smack down up a McD's! Omg! If I work one more damn weekend w/o a freakin break I'm going POSTAL!!!!! Nearly 7hr shift (& by nearly 7 I mean exactly 6hrs & 50mins) w/o a single seconds of rest! Oh, I forgot, took a pee break that lasted all of 2mins approx 20mins before I was supposed to get off.... So, add busy as hell day, customers that don't know how to order worth shit, having to be there at 4:30am to open, & not getting a break: Equals meltdown after work! Which I totally took out on hubs.. sorry babe, but you pissing me off on top of them pissing me off means you become my target.... not that that makes me in the right, but I'm a woman so sue me! And I'm bout to start! My boss is lucky I didn't lose my cool while on the clock. They do this to me all the time & I keep saying I'm going to speak w/ boss man bout it, but yea I'm a bit chicken shit! I think chicken shit me is done crossed the road..... be prepared for "take no shit shell" come tomorrow!
Well, that'll be all folks.... cause I'm not gonna try to write out all I had before, so I'm leaving it where it is. Peace!
I'm also bout to lay a smack down up a McD's! Omg! If I work one more damn weekend w/o a freakin break I'm going POSTAL!!!!! Nearly 7hr shift (& by nearly 7 I mean exactly 6hrs & 50mins) w/o a single seconds of rest! Oh, I forgot, took a pee break that lasted all of 2mins approx 20mins before I was supposed to get off.... So, add busy as hell day, customers that don't know how to order worth shit, having to be there at 4:30am to open, & not getting a break: Equals meltdown after work! Which I totally took out on hubs.. sorry babe, but you pissing me off on top of them pissing me off means you become my target.... not that that makes me in the right, but I'm a woman so sue me! And I'm bout to start! My boss is lucky I didn't lose my cool while on the clock. They do this to me all the time & I keep saying I'm going to speak w/ boss man bout it, but yea I'm a bit chicken shit! I think chicken shit me is done crossed the road..... be prepared for "take no shit shell" come tomorrow!
Well, that'll be all folks.... cause I'm not gonna try to write out all I had before, so I'm leaving it where it is. Peace!
Mar 7, 2011
Goodbye 3, Hello 4
My son Caleb officially turns 4yrs old tomorrow! Wow! It's crazy to think he's already 4!!!
Caleb is my character.... as in: Kels is my drama queen, Chaser's complicated yet sincerely loving, Caleb's a character, & Micah's my volcano! Love 'em all just as they are!
Caleb is the ultimate character! He's truly his father's son also. He's wise & intelligent beyond his years, and also has this huge personality once you get to know him that'll knock your socks off!! Got a better memory than his mom I'm sure. And he's such a riot!!
Unfortunately he's got my attitude & stubborn streak.... & his dad's appetite (omg not looking forward to his teen years!!!!!).
Gotta love him <3
Kinda scary.... He's about to be 4yrs, then come fall he'll start PreK..... Before I know it he'll be a football watching, video game playing, girl chasing, car driving, food inhaling, full blown teen!!!!! NOOOOOOOO!!!!! Now THAT is scary!
Yea yea yea.... I know he's only turning FOUR not fourteen, yea I've got 10+ years.... But I have an 11yr old, so I know how those 10yrs go by in a snap! Making sure to get all the incriminating pics & vids I can at every stage in their lives.... I'm guessing their future spouses (& dare I say, future children) will love getting a glimpse at them in all their crazy/goofy glory! And if nothing else I'm sure I'll enjoy a "walk down memory lane" every 6mths or so... I can picture myself flipping through old albums (on Facebook) & crying thinking back to how cute & innocent & precious they all were..... and still will be (fingers crossed!!!!) LOL!
Anywho.... I'm so excited for his party this weekend!!!!!! Had hubby promise to finish laying our new flooring in the entire Game Room before the party & he did - Thank you sooooo much baby!! You did an awesome job!! Now just the dining room, kitchen, laundry room, & two bathrooms to go.... Hmmm.... Oh dear Lord we may need help!!!
Besides the flooring, I'm determined to accomplish a butt load before the party! I'm compulsive like that at times for some reason.... don't ask. Well, yesterday was spent totally cleaning out the boys room, the living room, & the dining room. Still got the back yard, kitchen, laundry room, two baths, & the master bedroom to go..... Considering my work schedule, that leaves me only Thursday to accomplish it all! Anyone wanna play maid & come help????? J/K.... sorta....
Thankful we finished all birthday shopping, & today checked wrapping off my long list of To- Do's. Yay! Can't wait to see him enjoy his party! And I'm so so excited to see his face when he sees his big present (a Leapster 2)!!!! Can't wait can't wait can't wait!!!!!!
My retarded work scheduled me to work on Saturday (day of the party) even though I asked off like 2wks ago for it.... Whatever! I've made it fairly clear for them not to expect me.... ugh! Just irritates me the incompetence. I could create a Blog about how I loath my work alone.... perhaps later idk?
It's nearly 11pm.... close enough I guess.... to wish my Monkey Caleb a
HAPPY 4th BIRTHDAY!!!!!!! ---- <3 Mommy
Here's a few of my fav pics of Mr Caleb ->
Ta Ta for now folks!
Caleb is my character.... as in: Kels is my drama queen, Chaser's complicated yet sincerely loving, Caleb's a character, & Micah's my volcano! Love 'em all just as they are!
Caleb is the ultimate character! He's truly his father's son also. He's wise & intelligent beyond his years, and also has this huge personality once you get to know him that'll knock your socks off!! Got a better memory than his mom I'm sure. And he's such a riot!!
Unfortunately he's got my attitude & stubborn streak.... & his dad's appetite (omg not looking forward to his teen years!!!!!).
Gotta love him <3
Kinda scary.... He's about to be 4yrs, then come fall he'll start PreK..... Before I know it he'll be a football watching, video game playing, girl chasing, car driving, food inhaling, full blown teen!!!!! NOOOOOOOO!!!!! Now THAT is scary!
Yea yea yea.... I know he's only turning FOUR not fourteen, yea I've got 10+ years.... But I have an 11yr old, so I know how those 10yrs go by in a snap! Making sure to get all the incriminating pics & vids I can at every stage in their lives.... I'm guessing their future spouses (& dare I say, future children) will love getting a glimpse at them in all their crazy/goofy glory! And if nothing else I'm sure I'll enjoy a "walk down memory lane" every 6mths or so... I can picture myself flipping through old albums (on Facebook) & crying thinking back to how cute & innocent & precious they all were..... and still will be (fingers crossed!!!!) LOL!
Anywho.... I'm so excited for his party this weekend!!!!!! Had hubby promise to finish laying our new flooring in the entire Game Room before the party & he did - Thank you sooooo much baby!! You did an awesome job!! Now just the dining room, kitchen, laundry room, & two bathrooms to go.... Hmmm.... Oh dear Lord we may need help!!!
Besides the flooring, I'm determined to accomplish a butt load before the party! I'm compulsive like that at times for some reason.... don't ask. Well, yesterday was spent totally cleaning out the boys room, the living room, & the dining room. Still got the back yard, kitchen, laundry room, two baths, & the master bedroom to go..... Considering my work schedule, that leaves me only Thursday to accomplish it all! Anyone wanna play maid & come help????? J/K.... sorta....
Thankful we finished all birthday shopping, & today checked wrapping off my long list of To- Do's. Yay! Can't wait to see him enjoy his party! And I'm so so excited to see his face when he sees his big present (a Leapster 2)!!!! Can't wait can't wait can't wait!!!!!!
My retarded work scheduled me to work on Saturday (day of the party) even though I asked off like 2wks ago for it.... Whatever! I've made it fairly clear for them not to expect me.... ugh! Just irritates me the incompetence. I could create a Blog about how I loath my work alone.... perhaps later idk?
It's nearly 11pm.... close enough I guess.... to wish my Monkey Caleb a
HAPPY 4th BIRTHDAY!!!!!!! ---- <3 Mommy
Here's a few of my fav pics of Mr Caleb ->
Ta Ta for now folks!
Feb 17, 2011
New Addiction
It's CANDY!
I said NO to cigs & haven't gone back.... oh yea go me! But now I've turned to candy... uh oh! Red Hots are my fav!!!! I have them in my car & I'm popping them in my mouth here & there. I also luv my Jolly Ranchers :) So basically I dropped one really bad habit to pick up another mildly bad habit..... hmmm I'm ok with that!
And AMERICAN IDOL :]
Yep I've gotten soooooo into this season of American Idol!!! I watched the first couple of seasons, then couldn't stomach it. Tuned in this season to see Steven Tyler mainly & I got hooked! I took hubby down with me so that's our chillax time... sitting & watching American Idol. It's awesome!!!! I haven't picked a fav yet.... unless you count Steven (luv me some Steven Tyler).
Well that's all for my fun/random blog.....
On a serious note: Today at work a large group of students & some teachers came into my work. This evening I learned one of the vehicles they were traveling in was in an accident & one student died. It's shocking & tragic! I don't know much, but I do know other students were injured also. Prayers for all involved.... the students, the teachers, & all family & friends of those affected by this tragedy!
Be thankful for loved ones! Treasure each & every second you get with them! God Bless
I said NO to cigs & haven't gone back.... oh yea go me! But now I've turned to candy... uh oh! Red Hots are my fav!!!! I have them in my car & I'm popping them in my mouth here & there. I also luv my Jolly Ranchers :) So basically I dropped one really bad habit to pick up another mildly bad habit..... hmmm I'm ok with that!
And AMERICAN IDOL :]
Yep I've gotten soooooo into this season of American Idol!!! I watched the first couple of seasons, then couldn't stomach it. Tuned in this season to see Steven Tyler mainly & I got hooked! I took hubby down with me so that's our chillax time... sitting & watching American Idol. It's awesome!!!! I haven't picked a fav yet.... unless you count Steven (luv me some Steven Tyler).
Well that's all for my fun/random blog.....
On a serious note: Today at work a large group of students & some teachers came into my work. This evening I learned one of the vehicles they were traveling in was in an accident & one student died. It's shocking & tragic! I don't know much, but I do know other students were injured also. Prayers for all involved.... the students, the teachers, & all family & friends of those affected by this tragedy!
Be thankful for loved ones! Treasure each & every second you get with them! God Bless
Feb 10, 2011
V-Day is coming!!!! / Keeps Going Going Going... until it STOPS!
I <3 Valentines Day! <3 <3 <3
Honestly its really alone time with the hubby I love ;) Shhh... don't tell anybody....
Date night doesn't happen often with 4 kiddos! Got a sitter lined up & everything. This year we're not going out on Valentines (thank goodness!), instead we're doing Valentine's this weekend. Hoping this means its not crazy busy, but who am I kidding??? It will be insane out n' about!!! Oh well, still looking forward to battling the crowds along side my honey bun!
Then on actual Valentine's we're gonna enjoy time as a family, nice dinner at home & dessert & gifts! Yay! I'm thinking steak... yummmmm.... we'll see. This year we did so good & barely got any candy! Ok ok ok.... hubby insisted we not buy tons of candy like usual & after years I finally listened. Thinking this will be a great V-Day!
No this isn't my fav holiday..... not even close. I'm in love with Halloween & Christmas takes 2nd place. Then there's Easter, 4th July, Mother's Day, Thanksgiving..... then Valentine's, St Patrick's Day..... And now I'm drawing a blank.... hmmmm.... Oh well!
Time to cuddle with hubby & watch Paranormal Activity 2.... HOLD ME!!!
And yes this was super random....
KEEPS GOING GOING GOING... until it stops!
Well the V-Day blog was supposed to be published lastnight.... but laptop died! So, I'm doing a double blog!
This AM on the way to work I got ANOTHER DAMN FLAT TIRE!!!!! OMG!! This is the 3rd flat in a month and a half. I have some major tire bad luck! My totally awesome night-in-shinning-armor hubby came to my rescue & left work to put the donut on.... in the freezing cold! While I sat in his car & watched him :) He is my hero! Thanks to him I was only 40min late for work. But alas... now I get to spend my day off getting a new tire... blah! Not like I ever really get a day off to do nothing anyhow...
Welp... I'm gonna end this blog with this: Omg! Did anyone see the Transformer dude on American Idol lastnight????? He couldn't sing worth jack, but boy he made the most kick ass costume ever!!!! I WANT THAT COSTUME SO BAD!!!!!!!!!
Ok, that's all I got... TA-TA!
Honestly its really alone time with the hubby I love ;) Shhh... don't tell anybody....
Date night doesn't happen often with 4 kiddos! Got a sitter lined up & everything. This year we're not going out on Valentines (thank goodness!), instead we're doing Valentine's this weekend. Hoping this means its not crazy busy, but who am I kidding??? It will be insane out n' about!!! Oh well, still looking forward to battling the crowds along side my honey bun!
Then on actual Valentine's we're gonna enjoy time as a family, nice dinner at home & dessert & gifts! Yay! I'm thinking steak... yummmmm.... we'll see. This year we did so good & barely got any candy! Ok ok ok.... hubby insisted we not buy tons of candy like usual & after years I finally listened. Thinking this will be a great V-Day!
No this isn't my fav holiday..... not even close. I'm in love with Halloween & Christmas takes 2nd place. Then there's Easter, 4th July, Mother's Day, Thanksgiving..... then Valentine's, St Patrick's Day..... And now I'm drawing a blank.... hmmmm.... Oh well!
Time to cuddle with hubby & watch Paranormal Activity 2.... HOLD ME!!!
And yes this was super random....
KEEPS GOING GOING GOING... until it stops!
Well the V-Day blog was supposed to be published lastnight.... but laptop died! So, I'm doing a double blog!
This AM on the way to work I got ANOTHER DAMN FLAT TIRE!!!!! OMG!! This is the 3rd flat in a month and a half. I have some major tire bad luck! My totally awesome night-in-shinning-armor hubby came to my rescue & left work to put the donut on.... in the freezing cold! While I sat in his car & watched him :) He is my hero! Thanks to him I was only 40min late for work. But alas... now I get to spend my day off getting a new tire... blah! Not like I ever really get a day off to do nothing anyhow...
Welp... I'm gonna end this blog with this: Omg! Did anyone see the Transformer dude on American Idol lastnight????? He couldn't sing worth jack, but boy he made the most kick ass costume ever!!!! I WANT THAT COSTUME SO BAD!!!!!!!!!
Ok, that's all I got... TA-TA!
Feb 6, 2011
Cheater Cheater
Yep, hubby is a CHEATER!!!!
We made a pact to quit smoking, I made a plan to cut down then quit, got down to 2 a day & hubby suggests we just be done with it, I agree.... We've been cig free for over 2 1/2wks now.... well I HAVE anyhow! Dave - cig cheating hubby - bought a pack Monday & has been hiding this fact from me until recently! Sooooo not cool!!!
Actually I'm not nearly as pissed as I should be.... Silver Lining: I'm doing better than hubby.... still 100% cig free for me!!!! Therefore, I WIN!!!!!! Not exactly thrilled with him basically lying to me, but that doesn't make him the devil or anything. Doesn't make wifey too happy, but I'm not about to pitch a huge fit over a pack of cigs.
It's always the LYING part that gets me the most.... even lying-by-omission irritates me! That's what I'm still trying to drill into Dave's brain - I can forgive a lot, people are human & make mistakes... it's the lying about said mistakes &/or just lying for the hell of it, that's what's gonna loose my respect! Idk why I'm such a nag when it comes to this subject, but please please don't lie to me.... don't insult my intelligence & don't spare my feelings! I myself suck at lying! No really, I do! I'm no saint, yes I've lied, but that's very rare... might as well assume I'm telling the truth, since most likely I am.
Random quote that popped in my head: You can't handle the truth!!
Ok... think my blogging juice just ran out.... tata peeps! Oh, and enjoy the commercials (SuperBowl commercials), I know I will!!!!!
We made a pact to quit smoking, I made a plan to cut down then quit, got down to 2 a day & hubby suggests we just be done with it, I agree.... We've been cig free for over 2 1/2wks now.... well I HAVE anyhow! Dave - cig cheating hubby - bought a pack Monday & has been hiding this fact from me until recently! Sooooo not cool!!!
Actually I'm not nearly as pissed as I should be.... Silver Lining: I'm doing better than hubby.... still 100% cig free for me!!!! Therefore, I WIN!!!!!! Not exactly thrilled with him basically lying to me, but that doesn't make him the devil or anything. Doesn't make wifey too happy, but I'm not about to pitch a huge fit over a pack of cigs.
It's always the LYING part that gets me the most.... even lying-by-omission irritates me! That's what I'm still trying to drill into Dave's brain - I can forgive a lot, people are human & make mistakes... it's the lying about said mistakes &/or just lying for the hell of it, that's what's gonna loose my respect! Idk why I'm such a nag when it comes to this subject, but please please don't lie to me.... don't insult my intelligence & don't spare my feelings! I myself suck at lying! No really, I do! I'm no saint, yes I've lied, but that's very rare... might as well assume I'm telling the truth, since most likely I am.
Random quote that popped in my head: You can't handle the truth!!
Ok... think my blogging juice just ran out.... tata peeps! Oh, and enjoy the commercials (SuperBowl commercials), I know I will!!!!!
Feb 4, 2011
Mother Nature's Being Hormonal!!!
Like way way hormonal.... PMS to the MAX!!! I think someone should slip her a Midol, or Xanax, or both.....
Why am I saying this??? Well because I live in good ol' East TX where the weather can never quite make up its mind! It's HOT, it's cooollllddd (brrr), nope Hot Hot Hot again, then FReeZinG!!! I'm wearing shorts, no I'm wearing a parka, nope it's shorts, get out that snow suit!! Like 80 one day, then BAM it's SNOWING!!!!
I was in shock!! I soooo doubted the possibility of it actually snowing again this winter... Since we're lucky to see snow once a damn year & it's more likely to happen on EASTER than in a Winter Month!! Yep I'd say that explains us East Texan's freakin the FreaK out every damn time it for REAL snows here!!! We go: "OMG SNOW!!! How do I drive in this crap?" At least that's what I do!
Today I woke at the butt crack of dawn all thanks to hubby! Him: "holy shit!!!" Me: "wtf?! what's wrong?!" (then I proceed to bolt out of bed in a panic, only to realize he's starring out the window at the dark whiteness going on... yep snow). And what do I do next?? Get just as giggly excited as hubby, then run to the other side of the house & wake my 2 older children & my niece Britt who stayed the night. Half hr later & it's like a family slumber party going on in the living room... only kiddo still in bed at that time was Micah (who for some odd reason slept in till 9am!). No TV, no music, no toys.... just us snuggled up in blankets with the hopes of falling back asleep, but enjoying each other's company too much :] I'd have to say it was the greatest morning I've had in a long time!!!
Chilled there for awhile before getting up & venturing out side to really check out the snow. Cleaned a bit, then had some yummy pancakes & hot cocoa. Tried to make a giant snowman..... couldn't even manage a darn snowball!! I've never felt snow so powdery! Now back in our warm cozy home, watching some movies & being super lazy.... I'm lovin it!!!!!
Later I'm hoping I'm brave enough to drive in this... Gotta take Kels (my 11yr old daughter) dress shopping for the Father/Daughter dance... which is tomorrow night!!! YIKES!!!! I've put off shopping for far too long! Speaking of the dance.... Kels is so excited!!! I believe this is the 5th yr for her & hubby to attend the dance? It's always right before Valentine's & it's just so sweet. They both get all dressed up & he gets her flowers or a corsage. Have to practically beg hubby to get pics for me to see! I'm kinda jealous they have a special thing, but also think its the cutest thing ever! So, yea this blog has gone way off topic....
Well.... Mother Nature please behave!!! Thankful that damn groundhog didn't see his shadow... ready for Spring weather!!! And some much needed Spring Cleaning! That's all I got... tata for now!
Why am I saying this??? Well because I live in good ol' East TX where the weather can never quite make up its mind! It's HOT, it's cooollllddd (brrr), nope Hot Hot Hot again, then FReeZinG!!! I'm wearing shorts, no I'm wearing a parka, nope it's shorts, get out that snow suit!! Like 80 one day, then BAM it's SNOWING!!!!
I was in shock!! I soooo doubted the possibility of it actually snowing again this winter... Since we're lucky to see snow once a damn year & it's more likely to happen on EASTER than in a Winter Month!! Yep I'd say that explains us East Texan's freakin the FreaK out every damn time it for REAL snows here!!! We go: "OMG SNOW!!! How do I drive in this crap?" At least that's what I do!
Today I woke at the butt crack of dawn all thanks to hubby! Him: "holy shit!!!" Me: "wtf?! what's wrong?!" (then I proceed to bolt out of bed in a panic, only to realize he's starring out the window at the dark whiteness going on... yep snow). And what do I do next?? Get just as giggly excited as hubby, then run to the other side of the house & wake my 2 older children & my niece Britt who stayed the night. Half hr later & it's like a family slumber party going on in the living room... only kiddo still in bed at that time was Micah (who for some odd reason slept in till 9am!). No TV, no music, no toys.... just us snuggled up in blankets with the hopes of falling back asleep, but enjoying each other's company too much :] I'd have to say it was the greatest morning I've had in a long time!!!
Chilled there for awhile before getting up & venturing out side to really check out the snow. Cleaned a bit, then had some yummy pancakes & hot cocoa. Tried to make a giant snowman..... couldn't even manage a darn snowball!! I've never felt snow so powdery! Now back in our warm cozy home, watching some movies & being super lazy.... I'm lovin it!!!!!
Later I'm hoping I'm brave enough to drive in this... Gotta take Kels (my 11yr old daughter) dress shopping for the Father/Daughter dance... which is tomorrow night!!! YIKES!!!! I've put off shopping for far too long! Speaking of the dance.... Kels is so excited!!! I believe this is the 5th yr for her & hubby to attend the dance? It's always right before Valentine's & it's just so sweet. They both get all dressed up & he gets her flowers or a corsage. Have to practically beg hubby to get pics for me to see! I'm kinda jealous they have a special thing, but also think its the cutest thing ever! So, yea this blog has gone way off topic....
Well.... Mother Nature please behave!!! Thankful that damn groundhog didn't see his shadow... ready for Spring weather!!! And some much needed Spring Cleaning! That's all I got... tata for now!
Jan 28, 2011
this is not a blog its a sandwich....
or maybe its a blog... but who really cares????
Hubby & I are on day 11 of NOT smoking!!!! This is huge for us!!! True we've quit before then started back, back & forth blah blah blah..... But I personally am determined this time WILL be different! I can't stand being a smoker, I can't stand wasting money on it, it's not cool, it's so gross, my kids hate it.... There is nothing good about cigs at all!!! So, yes this is the last time I will be quiting cigs!
The other day I seriously considered buying a pack... Had a fight with hubby, Aunt Flo came to town, just all around a bad day! But I was like "no no no.... I will not allow one bad day to ruin the progress I've made!" I stayed strong & thus am beyond proud of myself! Yea go me!!!!!!
Well, off the "no smoking" thing now....
Lately life has felt like its on repeat.... Up at 4:30am, shower, get ready, out the door by 5:50am, get boys to sitter, then turn around & drive 45mins to work to make it by 7am, work all damn day (till 4ish), go get boys from sitter, turn around & go home, make dinner (sometimes store before dinner), rest for all of 30mins, tidy some, bath kids, bed time, repeat repeat repeat!!!
I'm gonna have a mental breakdown if something doesn't give soon :( Guess I shouldn't complain, at least I have a freakin job! Yes I hate my job, & I hate not being with my boys all day, & I hate the go go go routine of it all, & I hate how pissy I'm getting (especially since Aunt Flo showed)..... Basically I'm pissy about getting all pissy lately! Isn't it ironic..... don't u thing????
Usually I'm sooooo "the glass is half full" type person, so this "boo me" blah blah attitude has GoT to GO asap! I know I know.... it's all in my head! My only option now: talk myself into being non pissy & more yay life! "ok, self, it's time to chillax & SMILE on the inside as much as u do on the outside.... & mean it!!! remember all u have, cause it's a whole whole lot :)"
Well that's my sandwich for tha day..... er I mean blog.... or is this a sandwich?????
Hubby & I are on day 11 of NOT smoking!!!! This is huge for us!!! True we've quit before then started back, back & forth blah blah blah..... But I personally am determined this time WILL be different! I can't stand being a smoker, I can't stand wasting money on it, it's not cool, it's so gross, my kids hate it.... There is nothing good about cigs at all!!! So, yes this is the last time I will be quiting cigs!
The other day I seriously considered buying a pack... Had a fight with hubby, Aunt Flo came to town, just all around a bad day! But I was like "no no no.... I will not allow one bad day to ruin the progress I've made!" I stayed strong & thus am beyond proud of myself! Yea go me!!!!!!
Well, off the "no smoking" thing now....
Lately life has felt like its on repeat.... Up at 4:30am, shower, get ready, out the door by 5:50am, get boys to sitter, then turn around & drive 45mins to work to make it by 7am, work all damn day (till 4ish), go get boys from sitter, turn around & go home, make dinner (sometimes store before dinner), rest for all of 30mins, tidy some, bath kids, bed time, repeat repeat repeat!!!
I'm gonna have a mental breakdown if something doesn't give soon :( Guess I shouldn't complain, at least I have a freakin job! Yes I hate my job, & I hate not being with my boys all day, & I hate the go go go routine of it all, & I hate how pissy I'm getting (especially since Aunt Flo showed)..... Basically I'm pissy about getting all pissy lately! Isn't it ironic..... don't u thing????
Usually I'm sooooo "the glass is half full" type person, so this "boo me" blah blah attitude has GoT to GO asap! I know I know.... it's all in my head! My only option now: talk myself into being non pissy & more yay life! "ok, self, it's time to chillax & SMILE on the inside as much as u do on the outside.... & mean it!!! remember all u have, cause it's a whole whole lot :)"
Well that's my sandwich for tha day..... er I mean blog.... or is this a sandwich?????
Jan 26, 2011
Drive-thru Etiquette
Yes there IS a proper way to do drive-thru fast food!!! (and because I work there, thus deal with this crap all the time, I will list out the important ones)
DO know what u plan to order.... otherwise go inside & glare at the menu for however long ur heart desires!
DO make sure u have $$$$ to pay.... like cash or card..... something! anything!
DON'T ramble off a list of 5+ burgers all special made.... talk slowly, make sure we're getting it all! otherwise except I will ask u to repeat yourself over & over or ur order will most likely be wrong!
DON'T break a $100 bill in drive-thru
DO have ur cash or card ready when u get to the window..... especially if you've been waiting in a line anyhow
DON'T search ur entire car for those three pennies so u can give exact change! I'm being timed here people!!
DO turn off ur vehicle if it's loud please!
DO speak loud & clear
DO NOT... I repeat Do Not! pull up to the speaker & go "hold on I'm not ready.... (then proceed to speak to others in car and/or on cell phone)... what u want? hurry... u wanna chz burger? idk... no they dont got no pizza hur.... u wanna drink w that?... what kind?.. no they don't got no pepsi..... hurry up.... how u want that?.... ect ect ect..." (me hearing everything & being full aware there is a line of cars pilling up behind u)
DO give ur COMPLETE ORDER! Example: (right way) I'd like a 4peice nugget happy meal for a girl, sprite to drink, with sweet n sour sauce. That'd be all. (wrong way) I want one dim happy meals....
DON'T say u want a #whatever when all u really want is the burger by itself!
DO be specific
DON'T act like I'm the retard when u aren't specific & I have to ask multiple questions to get ur order... Example: customer - i wanna grill wrap supreme (which doesn't actually exist on my menu) me - which kind of wrap? customer - the grilled one! me - which grilled one? we have ranch, honey mustard, ect... customer - jus a grill wrap supreme!!!! me - yes please pull around (punch in grilled chk ranch wrap) [30mins later person comes back cause they didn't want ranch on it! OMG!!!] & yet I'm the retard????
DON'T order 20 mcdouble, 10 mcchickens, 30 sml fries.... blah blah blah! really?! CALL that order in AHEAD of time!!!!
DON'T complain to ME about shit I have no control over... the prices, the gross food, the fact u didn't get ur order right last time, ect ect. I'm not the owner or manager.... hell what u need to do is call corporate, but me - I don't give a flying flip! I'm just doing my job & when its time to go I leave... end of story!
DON'T u dare hand me a giant baggy of misc change & say "here I think this is about it..." WTF?! Are effin nuts????
DON'T talk on ur cell phone while going through drive-thru
DO always check ur damn order... this is fast food people! DON'T be stupid & go home only to realize u didn't get half ur order... Take the initiative & make sure its all there & its all the way u want it!
DON'T come back again... Seriously is McDs! GROSS!!!!
DO have a great day & enjoy the diarrhea :]
DO know what u plan to order.... otherwise go inside & glare at the menu for however long ur heart desires!
DO make sure u have $$$$ to pay.... like cash or card..... something! anything!
DON'T ramble off a list of 5+ burgers all special made.... talk slowly, make sure we're getting it all! otherwise except I will ask u to repeat yourself over & over or ur order will most likely be wrong!
DON'T break a $100 bill in drive-thru
DO have ur cash or card ready when u get to the window..... especially if you've been waiting in a line anyhow
DON'T search ur entire car for those three pennies so u can give exact change! I'm being timed here people!!
DO turn off ur vehicle if it's loud please!
DO speak loud & clear
DO NOT... I repeat Do Not! pull up to the speaker & go "hold on I'm not ready.... (then proceed to speak to others in car and/or on cell phone)... what u want? hurry... u wanna chz burger? idk... no they dont got no pizza hur.... u wanna drink w that?... what kind?.. no they don't got no pepsi..... hurry up.... how u want that?.... ect ect ect..." (me hearing everything & being full aware there is a line of cars pilling up behind u)
DO give ur COMPLETE ORDER! Example: (right way) I'd like a 4peice nugget happy meal for a girl, sprite to drink, with sweet n sour sauce. That'd be all. (wrong way) I want one dim happy meals....
DON'T say u want a #whatever when all u really want is the burger by itself!
DO be specific
DON'T act like I'm the retard when u aren't specific & I have to ask multiple questions to get ur order... Example: customer - i wanna grill wrap supreme (which doesn't actually exist on my menu) me - which kind of wrap? customer - the grilled one! me - which grilled one? we have ranch, honey mustard, ect... customer - jus a grill wrap supreme!!!! me - yes please pull around (punch in grilled chk ranch wrap) [30mins later person comes back cause they didn't want ranch on it! OMG!!!] & yet I'm the retard????
DON'T order 20 mcdouble, 10 mcchickens, 30 sml fries.... blah blah blah! really?! CALL that order in AHEAD of time!!!!
DON'T complain to ME about shit I have no control over... the prices, the gross food, the fact u didn't get ur order right last time, ect ect. I'm not the owner or manager.... hell what u need to do is call corporate, but me - I don't give a flying flip! I'm just doing my job & when its time to go I leave... end of story!
DON'T u dare hand me a giant baggy of misc change & say "here I think this is about it..." WTF?! Are effin nuts????
DON'T talk on ur cell phone while going through drive-thru
DO always check ur damn order... this is fast food people! DON'T be stupid & go home only to realize u didn't get half ur order... Take the initiative & make sure its all there & its all the way u want it!
DON'T come back again... Seriously is McDs! GROSS!!!!
DO have a great day & enjoy the diarrhea :]
Jan 23, 2011
Quit Touching My Boobies!!!!
Yep... I went there.....
Don't get me wrong, love me sum boob action! But NoT ALL ThE DamN TimE!!!! I keep telling hubby... "there's other skin here, I'm not all boob!" I don't think he's quite got the idea yet. Like can I possible just lay here with you & not have you groping me?????
How do you get a man to stop that? Like with my paci-lovin toddler I'm gonna put something awful tasting on his paci to get him to throw it out.... Is there a booby-lovin hubby version???? Hmmm... I'll have to give it a try!
Besides the constant "sexual harrassment" going on here its all good in da hood..... what the hell that means idk?! Been doing the girl scout cookie selling thing & we're at 173 boxes sold!!!!! Only 2 more boxes & we'll be at my daughters goal :) Huge improvement over last year, considering we only sold like 10 boxes last year!!!!! OMG we sucked last year!!! Think we made up for it this go around....
Well, hubby needs the puter now... Gotta get our Turkey in the slow cooker anyhow. So, peace out yo! LMAO!!!!!
Don't get me wrong, love me sum boob action! But NoT ALL ThE DamN TimE!!!! I keep telling hubby... "there's other skin here, I'm not all boob!" I don't think he's quite got the idea yet. Like can I possible just lay here with you & not have you groping me?????
How do you get a man to stop that? Like with my paci-lovin toddler I'm gonna put something awful tasting on his paci to get him to throw it out.... Is there a booby-lovin hubby version???? Hmmm... I'll have to give it a try!
Besides the constant "sexual harrassment" going on here its all good in da hood..... what the hell that means idk?! Been doing the girl scout cookie selling thing & we're at 173 boxes sold!!!!! Only 2 more boxes & we'll be at my daughters goal :) Huge improvement over last year, considering we only sold like 10 boxes last year!!!!! OMG we sucked last year!!! Think we made up for it this go around....
Well, hubby needs the puter now... Gotta get our Turkey in the slow cooker anyhow. So, peace out yo! LMAO!!!!!
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